I hate the whole wedding thing

I hate it...seriously I am hating all this bull shits to do this, do that, choose this, choose that, buy this, buy that...all bull shits...i do not understand if all these things are gonna make your marriage life blissful or even helpful in a way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
These are all seriously bull shit...I am gonna look back at this post and tell myself that I wont want my children to suffer over the marriage matters...main thing they legalise their marriage @ Malaysia + Church...then I am satisfied!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PS: I realized that I myself do have requirements as well. I am going to let go my requirements. (Update on 8/11/2012)